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Envelope Addressing

Often one of the most daunting parts of wedding planning is gathering everyone’s names and addresses. We get a lot of questions about how names, titles, different family situations, and addresses should be handled. Here we list some suggestions from our friends at William Arthur for addressing your invitations, and how to set up your excel spreadsheet. Don’t see your situation on the list below? Give us a call or come by the store and we will be happy to help!

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Starting off

It is traditional to use the complete, formal name and address of your invited guests. Use the full middle name where known. If not known, do not use initials, simply omit. It is also traditional to spell out Avenue, Road, and Street as well as the State name. Keep in mind, if you use inner envelopes, you may write the names of relatives and friends in informal or familial terms.

Married Couples

in which the woman has retained her maiden or professional name

Outer (or Single) Envelope:

Mrs. Katie Elizabeth Emory and Mr. Elliott Michael Long

(the woman’s name appearing first)

1260 Barnett Shoals Road

Athens, Georgia 30605


Inner Envelope (if used):

Aunt Katie and Uncle Elliott

Married Couples

living in the same house

Outer (or Single) Envelope:

Mr. and Mrs. Elliott Long

1260 Barnett Shoals Road

Athens, Georgia 30605


Inner Envelope (if used):

Katie and Elliott

-or-

Katie and Elliott Long

Married Couples

in which the woman has retained her maiden or professional name

Outer (or Single) Envelope:

Mrs. Katie Elizabeth Emory and Mr. Elliott Michael Long

(the woman’s name appearing first)

1260 Barnett Shoals Road

Athens, Georgia 30605


Inner Envelope (if used):

Aunt Katie and Uncle Elliott

Unmarried Couples

living in the same house


Should be listed alphabetically

Outer (or Single) Envelope:

Ms. Katie Emory and Mr. Elliott Long

1260 Barnett Shoals Road

Athens, Georgia 30605


Inner Envelope (if used):

Ms. Emory and Mr. Long

A family with young children

It is correct to send a separate invitation to children over 18 years of age.

Double Envelope (Outer):

Mr. and Mrs. Elliott Long, junior

1260 Barnett Shoals Road

Athens, Georgia 30605


Double Envelope (Inner):

Mr. and Mrs. Long

Emily and Betsy (by seniority)


Single Envelope:

Mr. and Mrs. Elliott Long, junior

Emily and Betsy (by seniority)

1260 Barnett Shoals Road

Athens, Georgia 30605

Single invitee bringing a guest

If guest’s name is known

Outer Envelope (or Single):

Ms. Katie Emory and Mr. Elliott Long

1260 Barnett Shoals Road

Athens, Georgia 30605

-or-

If guest’s name is not known

Ms. Katie Emory

1260 Barnett Shoals Road

Athens, Georgia 30605



Inner Envelope (if used):

Katie and Elliott

-or-

If guest’s name is not known

Katie and Guest


Single Envelope:

Ms. Katie Emory and Guest

1260 Barnett Shoals Road

Athens, Georgia 30605

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Envelope Addressing